Why Dating Is Hard For Women


Dating has never been easy, especially for women.

Dating in your late 20s is hard because men think you want to meet someone and get hitched immediately, which means they think you will want commitment ASAP.  That scares them.

Dating in your early 30s is hard because men think you want to start having kids any minute now, which means they have to propose to you quickly AND be ready to be a father in the next 30 seconds.  That also scares men.

Dating in your mid to late 30s is hard because men think you are making your last go before your clock stops ticking, which means they think you have NO expectation so they treat you like crap.

So when does it get easier?  When we let go of some of our superficial prejudices that we can live without and allow ourselves to fall for a nice, wholesome guy.  That’s when it gets easy.  Oh, and it also gets easier when women offload the burden of having children.  When she becomes a “cougar” (and I use the word fondly), the playing field changes, once again.

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