5 Ways To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams


Finding someone is no easy task, it takes time and patience to find the one that is right for you.  The following list may be somewhat common sense, but sometimes we just need a little reminder.

  1. Take care of yourself: You need to position yourself so that you are marketable against the competition. No hot, respectable girl of any boy’s dream would want to date an unemployed, uneducated, untidy loser. So make sure you have your head straight, wear clean clothes, and wash your hair
  2. Find her: This is probably the toughest part – finding her. There are many venues you can tap. Online dating (it is no longer a stigma to tell friends and family that you met online), friend gatherings, alumni parties, and volunteer events (who doesn’t want a pretty girl with a big heart?). Though, I really do hope you volunteer because you believe in the cause rather than just to mack on girls
  3. Distinguish yourself from the pack: Now that you’ve met her, you need to let it be known that you are the prince amongst the swamp of frogs. Be confident, witty, funny, and most importantly, honest. Going back to being confident, if you are not a smooth talker in person, try online dating. It allows you to be uninhibited and strips you of your reservations therefore allowing you to be that funny and kind guy you are all along. A little chivalry wouldn’t hurt either. I know you are tired, but give the old lady the seat on the subway or bus. A small act of kindness goes a long way
  4. Pursue her: Who doesn’t love a good chase and the feeling of being desired? Courtship is what can make or break you. Remember, the girl of your dream is singular so treat her like she is the only one who matters. Text her to make sure she got home ok after a date. Be there for her when she wants to vent about how she dislikes her boss or when she had a huge argument with her friend. Cheer her up with something small a rose or a quart of her favorite ice cream and veg on the couch together eating that tub of ice cream
  5. Sealing the deal: Dating in major cities is ambiguous. You never know when you are just “dating” or you are “exclusive”, and there is a world of difference between the two.  Tell her how you adore her and want to see her exclusively, then hear her out and hopefully she realizes that you are a keeper.  No need to make it more complicated than it already is by “hinting”.  You can be hinting for months before you get anywhere

To finish off, I want to clarify one thing. Nice guys DO win. It might be a rocky start but they finish first. Girls are smart and catch on pretty quickly. After a few heartbreaks, they realize that nice guys are the best kind of guys.

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2 Responses to “5 Ways To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams”
  1. J.A.F.O says:

    That post is actually a great help to me. As one of the supposed ‘Nice Guys’ who seems to constantly lose, this post made me think it’s not me personally – perhaps the choices I make.

    • pillowchats says:

      It’s definitely not you. All my nice guy friends complain about the same things but they are also the ones who end up with the really nice girls and healthy marriages. With your sense of humor, I am sure you will find someone soon enough.

      Thanks for stopping by!

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